I’ve been engaged in a few conversations with friends, students, and acquaintances this last week which has ultimately lead to them accusing me of victim blaming. Victim blaming as defined by the Canadian Resource Centre for Victims of Crime states, “Victim blaming is a devaluing act that occurs when the victim(s) of a crime or an accident is held responsible — in whole or in part — for the crimes that have been committed against them.” Reading this definition, I strongly disagree with the accusation that I victim blame, because at least from my perspective, this would suggest that I recognize that there
Some people are happy in a love relationship, some individuals are unhappy in a love relationship, and others are in search of a love relationship. Your present status is completely up to you. You are in control of whether you are in a love relationship, whether you are aligned with love relationships or not. Once you are able to align yourself with that particular vibrational frequency you will then synchronistically find those who are also in search of a love relationship. The process may not be a simple task for some individuals due to their own issues or shadows.
You can only live your life; you cannot create a life for anyone
There is a big difference between thinking positively and believing that we have the ability to change our reality. You can most certainly think you can … but do you really believe you have the ability to do so? This is the difference between positive thinking and making magick. Magick is the art of manipulating Will, emotions and energy in order to bring about change within an individual’s reality whether it is around them or within them. This is certainly more than just thinking positively about something and expecting it to change. The individual is required to be invested in creating the energetic shift to occur with their Will. Thinking positively won’t change anything on its own but it can help raise an individual’s vibration by shifting their point of view to those things that make them feel better.
As witches we use magick for all sorts of intentions: gaining wealth, nurturing interpersonal relationships, advancing careers, protection,